Can I get rid of my cuckold fantasy

Do you even want to get rid of it?

If that's a yes, then be ready to accept, it will not be going to a very easy job. Sexual arousal is something very personal to each of us and what is really arousing for the mind is something very difficult to get over it. Nonetheless, you may experiment with it and see yourself.

Fighting with your sexual kink?

Putting yourself in conflict with your sexual kink and fetishes will create anxiety. It will be like trying to stop a song that constantly playing in your head or trying to quit smoking when a packet of cigarettes is right in front of you and nobody is stopping to take that packet.

Can you change it?

You can definitely choose to explore new sexual activities and occasionally may find some other things that you might get really aroused about. That new thing may work for you but this will need lots of experimentations and a willing partner(s) of course.

Think about it like this:

It will be easier to understand if you take the “sex” out of it. Suppose you have a favourite food (which I assume you definitely have), if you explore and try other new kinds of food, you may find those new foods really tasty and you may really like them. But if ‘Biryani’ was your favorite food, it’s unlikely that you will stop eating biryani again.

A healthy way

Everyone should be free to indulge their kinks without shame or judgment (as long as there are consent and willing partner(s) of course).

In fact, it can be very liberating for you to enjoy what you really like and it will give you a positive vibe inside you. Someone being sexually submissive does not mean anyone lacks respect for him- in fact, it has quite the opposite effect. When there are trust and understanding between the willing partner(s), you can communicate your desires without fear or judgment. It increases the level of respect all have for each other and all accept each other with only encouragement, no judgment.

So, rather fighting it, should think about a healthy way to cope up with it. It may happen that after trying it, you might lose interest and start enjoying something else. But without trying it, you will never be going to know it.

It goes without saying that sometimes it’s hard realizing your sexual fantasies due to cultural issues or taboo factors. You may not able to find a understanding suitable partner(s) for your kink. This applies even more in the Indian perspective.

If you really want to stop it

You first need to be clear about the real reason why you are feeling it. Getting rid of this fantasy will going to be the same as quitting cigarettes or losing weight. You will have to give proper time and dedication to it. Here are some ways to slowly quit it:

• Stop masturbating thinking about it.

• Stop watching cuckold or related porn

• Stop reading cuckolding stories

• Start lifting (this is good to boost your testosterone levels which increase dominance)

• Watch aggressive movies (fight club, never back down) it has been proven by research that when you watch a fight your testosterone levels are rising and you become more prone to aggression hence dominance.

Unfortunately, there is no definitive guide, these are only some suggestions. But if it really bothers you that much, I would advise consulting a psychologist.