How can I make my wife agree for Cuckolding or MFM?

So, let me start by saying there is a possibility that she will not be up for it, she may find the idea idiotic and even offensive so in such a case, don't push for it. You will never be successful forcing her to do anything which she is not interested in and if you push it too far, it will do definite damage to your relationship and will create tension between you two and even may break your marriage.

Having said that, there are possibilities you may make it happen but you should be aware that such a quest take time and it will not happen right away. You will need to have patience with this and also refrain from making any move that might turn her off.

Here are a few things you should absolutely avoid:

• Do Not Force Her: Think about the day you started having this fantasy and how long it took you to consider it trying for real. You need to give her enough time according to her need to process all these.

• Avoid Misunderstanding: When you talk about this to your wife, she will probably think that you are doing it so later you can sleep with another woman as well. This is a common human response. Be sure to make it absolutely clear that it is not your intent.

• Don't Be Pushy: Even after the talk and she seems considering it, do not push her to just try in real so fast. This is very common because you are very obsessed with your fantasy and seeing her considering it might turn you on to another level.

• Avoid Wrong Timing: There should a proper atmosphere and timing for the talk. Her mind should not be worrying about any other matter when you want to discuss this. Plan it in a way that she can give her complete attention to it.

• Avoid Using Puppet: This is another common mistake where a husband deliberately tells an ‘outsider’ to sext-chat with his wife and somehow convince her for it on his behalf. Do not ever do it, do not think your wife is stupid. If she will find out, she will not just hate your approach but it also shows that you do not even trust her enough to ask on your own.

• Don’t Throw Guilt: If she says she is not interested and hearing that makes you disappointed and then you start throwing guilt on her, then forget that she will ever consider it. Even if she says No at first don't lose hope too fast.

• Don't Choose Someone You Already Know: If she agrees to try it, don't invite someone either of you already knows. It will create complications in the long run if you want a break later or not like it. Make a new friend solely for sexual adventure without sharing any emotional bond. It will make things easy and straight forward.

There are many but these are some of the common mistakes.

Most husbands fail to convince their wife because they come too strong when they discuss their fantasy. So, when you do that, do not focus entirely on what you want. You have to want her to see what's in it for her. Of course, it is your fantasy but what will she get fulfilling this fantasy of yours? So, your focus should change from your fantasy towards fun for her. Make her see how fun it could be for her and things she will be getting out of it which will be new and exciting and is currently missing in your sex life.

Wives, who go for it tend to do so because it excites them seeing the fun for them going in this lifestyle. She loves the new and more attraction getting from her husband and another man which makes them feel sexy (again). They love this newfound confidence in them and freedom of exploration of their sexuality along and approved by their husband. The assurance of husband in this free sexual exploration is the main driver for them to do it freely.

If you fail to realize all that to your wife, your approach is wrong and at this point, you should go back to your plan and correct it and plan another course of action that will do the job.

No one else knows your wife better than you and you are the only man that will do it best, so just work on it.

Now, here are few tips to convince her into it:

• Start With The Roleplay: The best time to bring the topic is during sex (and follow-up later), if she enjoys it she will be more vigorous in sex (and that's how you know she is at least excited about it).

• Ignite Her Sexuality: Once you are able to give her open space and no judgment, she will tell you herself what she wants to do with another guy. All you need to do it enforce those thoughts of her and make it more igniting for her.

• Help From Erotica: Once in a while, talk to her about how will it be if there will be two-man (one is you) and it will be a threesome, you both can read or watch erotica and roleplay with it. You may also explore it in erotica (stories, visuals, etc.) together.

• Take It Slow, Don’t Jump: Mental seduction comes first before physical one. She should be mentally ready for this excitement before you take it to the physical level. Induce her mind with the thought of another man pleasuring her.

• Open Communication: The more open you are with your partner, the more acceptance there will be and the more comfortable the situation gets. It helps in taking things in the right direction. So always talks things through.

• Taking Things at The Next Level: Once you both are mentally ready to at least try it, the next step is to find a suitable guy who understands it. This can be challenging but you will know if he the right guy after talking with him for a while.

Explore more and have fun with it.

Finally, if she’s just not into it after all that, then it is something you will just have to accept. Not all couples are made for that. Maybe she will never be comfortable enough to try it in real and just happy role-playing this in the bedroom.

There are so many possibilities and as long as you are supportive, kind, gentle, understanding, and reassuring when talking to your wife about this, there is a very good chance she will make your fantasies come true in one way or another.