What's it like to be a bull for cuckold couples?

In my opinion, The question can be divided into two parts,

• How it's like to be a Bull in general.

• How it’s like to be a Bull during a sexual encounter with cuckold couples.

I will answer both scenarios one by one.

In General

In general, it more or less feels like a friend. A friend with who you can talk anything. We do not talk about sex all the time and although topics related to sex dominates the discussion, there are space to discuss other things as well.

It is like finding a comfortable place to talk about anything without being judged. We talk about normal relationships as well or anything for that matter.

As we all are quite open and comfortable, we don't need to think twice before discussing any taboo and all are open to putting their idea forward. It does not mean we try each and everything, what we will do during the meet is something we all are agreed and interested in or at least interested in trying to.

But discussion of any taboo or any sexual activity or related topic is quite common.

One thing that I really want to point out is, there is mutual respect, chemistry, and comfort between us all and that is really necessary to sustain the dynamics to go forward and keep the enjoyment and exploration in power mode.

I do not think that being with a couple is a privilege of some kind. Calling it a privilege means you are underestimating the Bull and his confidence. The Bull is someone very confident and having a go-getter attitude and that is something attracts to a couple in the first place. We get into this lifestyle because there is something in it for each of us to enjoy. The cuckold enjoys the show, the hotwife enjoys different sensations and pleasures her cuckold showing it and fulfilling his fetish and the Bull enjoys dominating, having good sex, and contributing in the fetish. It is more like a mutually consensual sexual pleasure rather than a privilege.

During sexual encounter

In Cuckolding-Hotwifing dynamics, being a Bull is essentially a power game.

But do mind, this power does not necessarily translate outside the play zone (bedroom or whatever place this is happening). A bull- and sometimes together with the hotwives, in Female Led Relation(FLR)- dominate the entire session sexually. Outside we are still a friend and this domination do not come into play publically.

Some cuckold couples (both the cuck and the hotwife) are submissive so with them, Bull alone dominates the session, and bull being dominative and taking control is the sole reason for a cuckold to enjoy the session. For cuckold, pleasure comes from giving up that power of sexually pleasing his partner over to someone else. It won't be an exaggeration if I would say that the Bull ‘own’ the Hotwife and sometimes cuckold as well for the entire session.

Being dominative is the essential quality for a bull in this lifestyle.

Now, there are many reasons to enjoy dominating a couple's sex life, for whatever brief period it may happen.

• In a sense, it feels like God throughout the entire session as you get to dominate and play by your rule.

• Who does not like the power in hand and plays with its own rule?

• You get to try your fantasies (with the consent of course).

• Sometimes knowing the fantasy/fetish of couples is exciting itself.

• Most of the time, a cuckold presents the Hotwife the way you asked, it's just like being served a hot meal and what is more fun than ‘eating’ a tasty ‘food’.

Any downside of being a Bull?

I would like to be neutral in my answer so although there are many reasons to enjoy this lifestyle being a bull, there may be some downside as well, which differs from person to person of course.

Here are a few of them:

• Being in this dynamic essentially makes you sex-hungry and it may happen that couples are not available according to your need and time, which can be frustrating.

• As you are essentially in a non-monogamous relationship, It might be hard for you to maintain a monogamous relationship and give this thing up so easily.

• It also psychologically changes you and the whole perspective of ‘sex’ for you.

• You are more likely to be single and not into a committed relationship if you want to enjoy this lifestyle freely, until unless you cheat your partner or she is agreed with your little adventures on the side (which is highly unlikely).

• You are likely not going to enjoy vanilla sex anymore.

Happy Cuckolding!